Showing posts with label life-lessons. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life-lessons. Show all posts

Sunday, March 6, 2022

DO NOT REST ON YOUR OARS

 

cover image of church sermon _ background of chancel and altar_ parable of wheat and tares _ do not rest on your oars
Lessons from the Parable of the Tares and Wheat


Main Text: Matthew 13:24-30

Key Scripture Verse:

But while his men were sleeping, his enemy came and sowed weeds [resembling wheat] among the wheat, and went away - MT. 13: 25 (AMP)

 

What does it mean to ‘rest on your oars’?

-        to be satisfied with your achievements and not to make an effort to do anything else:

-        To feel comfortable because you have been successful in the past:

-        Satisfied and complacent.

-        self-fulfilled within self-satisfaction

-        Satiety (as in satiated); triumphalism (pride)

                                                                                                         (Reference: Cambridge dictionary)


What questions could you have been asking in your pathetic situation?

Has God forgotten me?  God gave me this child/job/wife, why am I having troubles?

Whatsoever your questions are, you are not alone. The servants would have wondered how those tares could have come to be; in a vineyard owned by God.

 “Master, did you not sow good seed in your field? How then does it have weeds?(Matthew 13:27).

        The world is full of ills because the devil is an enemy of good and this world is his playground But through it all, God is not caught unaware

He said to them, ‘An enemy has done this.’ The servants said to him, ‘Do you want us then to go and gather them up?’ But he said, ‘No, lest while you gather up the tares you also uproot the wheat with them. (Matthew 13:28-29)

 

Why would God tell them not to pluck the ills out yet?

        God has a master plan

It’s not what happens around us that matters but how we respond to what happens in us wherewithal whatsoever is happening around us.

        While growing next to wheat, tares (darnels) cannot be distinguished from real wheat. It is not until near the time of harvest that you can discern which of the two the real item is.

        Issues of life that are wheat can appear as tares; while tares can appear as wheat

Life challenges could arise to fire us and test our true nature

        Every ill has an expiry date (Rev. 12:9 tells us the devil, who deceives the world, will be cast out at the end of days)

        The Lord knows who are His (2 Timothy 2:19 - Nevertheless, the foundation of God stands sure, having this seal, The Lord knows them that are his. And, Let every one that names the name of Christ depart from iniquity).

        The Lord expects us to stay on track and not get corrupted until the time is fulfilled.

 

What is expected while waiting?

Let both grow together until the harvest…” (Matthew 13:30a)

While waiting, there’s so much room for growth. It is in the process of growth that we become all God intends for us. There will be pruning, polishing and molding in the process.

For instance, you don’t have to wait till there are challenges before you get to pray. Don’t settle for being a Sunday-to-Sunday Christian. Grow spiritually, socially, financially, career-wise, and in all areas. Increase in knowledge!

If flowers don’t grow, they won’t become as beautiful as they are. Therefore, we cannot afford to settle.  There are many things at stake coming ahead of us… So much God can do with our lives.

Be not like the reapers who went to sleep… (Matthew 13:25) Let’s not be contented with what we have achieved … Prepare and be ready every moment as if the Lord of the harvest is at the door.

 

Shall we pray?

May the Lord endow us with the grace and enablement not to settle for less; for there is room for us to grow; such growth we claim with the capacity for us to contain.

Lord, we want more of you, we want more of your encounters. Enlarge our capacity; enlarge our coast such that we would be prepared and positioned to receive all you have in store for us.

All these we pray through Christ our Lord. Amen.

 

Call to ACTION

What would you do differently this week?

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Summary - Lessons from the Parable of the Tares and Wheat

        God has a master plan and a great purpose for us.

        The world is full of ills; which may happen to anyone.

        Through it all, God is not caught unaware. He still cares.

        The Lord knows who are His and expects us to persevere

        Every ill has an expiry date and every good has a rewarding date.

        While persevering, keep growing and don’t settle.

 

This message was first preached as Sermon by Mr. Timothy Aderogba on Sunday 13th February 2022 at the Anglican Church of Praise - ACOPraise, Eputu 105101 (under the Lagoon Archdeaconry, Diocese of Lagos).




Friday, July 30, 2021

SALES CULTURE - Life Lessons

Money is not just what makes you wealthy. Knowing how to call money forth whenever you need it is what qualifies you as wealthy.

It was an embodiment of blessings at the webinar session with Brother Jonathan Oladeji who was our resource person for the webinar. I was charged up for action and in here, I divulge what I learned and I also added few thoughts.

cultivating successful sales culture - eflier designed by TIMSE

To strengthen our calling, fulfill our missions and ministries; we all have to be sustainable. So, whether you are officially in business or not, we all need to know how to make money; turn out profit and maximize our impacts.

So, why don't we sell well: we often focus mostly on building our technical skills; neglecting marketing skills.

School system taught us once you can read and pass, you will be okay. That is quite right but not true. If you have a high grade point but don’t know how to sell yourself before an interviewer, you will still be overridden by others.

Steps to winning Sales

I summarize what he listed into three; 

1. Know your product. 

2. Know your target audience; and 

3. Know your marketing channel.

We really have to sit down and write these things down; don’t just assume. What really are you offering who are you offering it to; and how will they know about you? This is where brand awareness comes in. Once you know your vision and mission; then craft your brand story and brand image in such a way that it would be irresistible (PS: if you’re at this phase, you can mail me. I’m a branding designer and I also consult on brand strategy)

So, how do we actually learn to sell?

Continuous learning, self-development is key. Read books, take a marketing course, and learn the art of negotiation.

Face your fears. Learn to handle rejections. I recall a nugget I learnt recently from an award-winning neurologist; Nigerian-born, Australia-based Dr. Niyi Borire in his Mental health toolkit program during the Men’s Arcade Bootcamp seminar organised by immerse-circle. Our unconscious mind experiences aptly stores our past experiences and controls our decision-making. So, we have tried one thing and then another; and we feel relunctant to try another. Meanwhile, that repeated trial is what we need to break through. By experience, we will learn what works and what doesn’t.

Call to Action. Bro. Jonathan exemplified this with local businesses; such as an akara seller who relentlessly advertises with statements such as “o gbona felifeli” (native lingual) meaning “it’s hot, come and buy now while fresh.” It’s not enough to give an offer. We need to back it up with an assertion of urgeny/ importance.

By nature, I am an introverted person  (Timothy Aderogba). So I raised a question – “I'm often faced with a kind of Shyness on Social Media. After seldom postings, i don't want to bother my contact lists with frequent messages.” I know there are many like me; you might even be a sanguine by nature but still shy online. Be confident in yourself and in your product. Push and don’t be intimidated.

Bro Jonathan mentioned that there is ethical posting which should adhered to. You don’t have to spam people with direct messages; which can lead to blocking. Nonetheless, utilize less intrusive strategy by focusing your posts on your own platform; such as status and feeds on social media.

 

These are all excerpted lessons from Joyous Innovations Sixty-Seven webinar; Held Wednesday July 28, 2021

Resource Person: Mr. Jonathan Oladeji; an Author, content developer and PhD Scholar in Real Estate; currently resident in South Africa.

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